兔子牙 - 龍門客棧
兔子牙 - 龍門客棧
03：07
來自提莫徐徐
最近我聽到一個詞覺得特別好，「愛的流動」。
這個愛的能力其實包含了很多，比如說共情，包容，換位思考，這些都可以叫愛的能力。
如果兩個人都具備愛的能力的話，就可以在兩個人之間形成愛的流動。
Recently I heard a very good word， “the flow of love”。
The ability of love actually includes many， such as empathy， tolerance and empathy， which can be called the ability of love。
If two people have the ability to love， they can form a flow of love between two people。
我理解你，我對你好，我包容你，我體諒你，然後對方在感受到這些之後，也會反過來願意更加去體諒對方，理解對方。
這樣一種良性的迴圈，就叫做「愛的流動」
我聽到這個詞覺得特別美好，特別溫暖，希望我們每一個人都可以有「愛的流動」。
I understand you， I treat you well， I tolerate you， I understand you， and then the other party will be more willing to understand each other and understand each other after feeling these。
Such a virtuous cycle is called “the flow of love”
I feel very beautiful and warm when I hear this word。 I hope each of us can have “the flow of love”。
不管長到多少歲，都還是會被“你是我最好的朋友”和“你是我最信任的人”這種幼稚的話戳中。
就是這樣的偏愛，讓我成為了如此特別的。
No matter how old you are， you will still be poked by childish words such as “you are my best friend” and “you are the person I trust most”。
It is this preference that makes me so special。
以前覺得溫柔的人可貴，現在覺得真誠才是這個世界上最高階的情商。
I used to think gentle people are valuable， but now I think sincerity is the highest EQ in the world。
種子要開花需要良好的土壤、溫度、和養分，人也一樣。
一個孩子成為一個善良真誠勇敢的大人，需要源源不斷的愛和鼓勵。
人應該在努力積極和被肯定的環境裡進步。
Seeds need good soil， temperature， and nutrients to blossom， and so do people。
A child needs a steady stream of love and encouragement to become a kind， sincere and brave adult。
People should make progress in a positive and positive environment。
原來看著別人的愛情真的也會哭。
我永遠為人類感情裡的真摯，真誠，熱烈而感動 ，如果沒辦法擁有，我將永遠為別人熱淚盈眶。
It turns out that looking at other people‘s love will really cry。
I will always be moved by the sincerity， sincerity and enthusiasm of human feelings。 If I can’t have it， I will always cry for others。
到現在，我聽到以前的同學和朋友結婚生子或者決定回老家生活的訊息仍然覺得不可思議。
我始終沒有“正式步入生活”的覺悟，沒有連續性、沉浸式的人生體驗，我所有的線性時間都是為了籌劃和得到那些時刻。
我等於我的目標和結果。
Up to now， I still feel incredible when I hear the news that my former classmates and friends get married and have children or decide to go back to their hometown。
I have never had the consciousness of “officially entering life”， and I have no continuous and immersive life experience。 All my linear time is to plan and get those moments。
I am equal to my goal and result。
對我而言，目前最幸福的是白天有喜歡的事情可以做，晚上到點能踏實進入睡眠。
養成早睡早起的習慣，有喜歡的人，也在慢慢進一步發展。
對事情不急不躁，不情緒化，真誠待人也溫柔待自己。
For me， the happiest thing at present is that I have something I like to do during the day and can go to sleep at night。
Develop the habit of going to bed early and getting up early。 People who like it are also developing slowly。
Don‘t be impatient or emotional about things， be sincere to others and gentle to yourself。
【圖源網路，侵刪致歉】