老人總是會說吃虧是福，可是真正長大以後你才會發現，如果真正信奉了吃虧是福這句話，那麼可能你這輩子就會有吃不完的虧！變成別人眼中的軟柿子和受氣包！畢竟這個世界上自私的人都活得挺快樂的！
The old man will always say that disadvantage is a blessing， but really grow up after you will find that if the real belief in disadvantage is a blessing this sentence， so you may have this life will not finish the loss！ Become a soft persimmon and doormat in the eyes of others！ After all， the selfish people in this world are quite happy！
其實活在這個世界上，我們每一個年齡階段都會有與之相匹配的煩惱，這應該是命運早就在冥冥之中安排好的，所以我們不應該會任何事情感到後悔，畢竟你所做的任何決定，就是你當時那個年齡階段最想要做的決定而已！
In fact， living in this world， we each age stage will have to match the trouble， this should be the fate has been arranged in the dark， so we should not regret anything， after all， any decision you made， is you at that age stage most want to make the decision！
其實真正地成長就是我們越來越能接受現實，而不應該是我們變得越來越現實，如果一個人因為長大而變得越來越冷漠，那就不算是真正地長大。我覺得一個人真正成大的表現應該是溫柔，對所有人所有事溫柔，對這個世界溫柔。
In fact， the real growth is that we can accept the reality more and more， but should not be we become more and more realistic， if a person because of growing up and become more and more indifferent， it is not really grown up。 I think the performance of a person‘s real growth should be gentle， gentle to everyone and everything， gentle to the world。
其實這個世界上看起來越溫柔的人，卻是最難真正能夠馴服的人，因為這樣的人，他們心性溫柔，不太喜歡和別人太密切的交往，總是怕哪裡辜負了對方的期待，同時又很少期待別人，所以很難有人能夠真地走進他們的心。
As a matter of fact， the gentler people seem in this world， are the most difficult ones to be truly tamed， for such people are of a tender nature， and do not like to keep too close company with others。 They are always afraid of letting others down， and at the same time they seldom expect others， so that it is difficult for anyone to really enter their hearts。
現在的人總是以為苦難能夠他們變得更加的強大，是真正的現實是很多的人都會被苦難折磨的遍體鱗傷，變得謹小慎微，充滿奴性，我想或許那些真正能夠因為苦難而變得更加強大的人，或許他們本身從來不覺得自己受了多少的苦，而在他們的潛意識裡是自己從這些苦難的事情上面學到了什麼。
Now people always think that suffering can they become more powerful， is the true reality is a lot of people are suffering torture was black and blue all over， become timid， full of servility， I thought maybe those can really has become more powerful because of the suffering people， maybe they never feel how much suffering， In their subconscious is what they have learned from the ordeal。
其實這個世界對於我們來說不過就是一個大的素材庫，我們可以從中挑選任何自己喜歡的素材，不應該受外界的影響而喪失了自己可以主動挑選任何素材的權利。
In fact， the world for us is just a big material library， we can choose any of their favorite material， should not be affected by the outside world and lose their own initiative to choose any material right。
結語：以上這些關於成長的人生感悟哲理，精闢又透徹，讀懂讓你受益終生。
Conclusion： the above philosophy about the growth of life insight， incisive and thorough， read let you benefit for life。